Sorry just got lost in the 'how you did it post'.
I assume you pull power from the OPS to trigger the relay then ground the relay coil. Then the relay powers the LP from +12v and LP wire through it's contacts.
Where is the relay getting it's +12v for the lift pump? Hopefully from a 12v source not the same OPS wire that triggers the relay.
Now here is the important part and IMO your issue: The relay coil when turned off is like an ignition coil. It will develop 300 volts and arc the OPS contacts unless there is a surge suppressor diode across the relay coil. Over time this will ruin the contacts and sometimes weld them together.
To install the diode across the coil you literally put it in backwards. Note put this diode directly on the relay coil wires as any switches in the way will render it useless. That would be with the diode band toward the positive connection so the diode doesn't flow any current with the engine on and OPS supplying power. Install wrong and the OPS or diode will instantly smoke off. So it's pretty easy to make sure it is correct and they are generally sold in packs of 2 at Radio Shack.
Flyback diode Explained here with diagrams for the coil side of the relay only (you got the LP contacts fine I assume):
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flyback_diode
I assume you pull power from the OPS to trigger the relay then ground the relay coil. Then the relay powers the LP from +12v and LP wire through it's contacts.
Where is the relay getting it's +12v for the lift pump? Hopefully from a 12v source not the same OPS wire that triggers the relay.
Now here is the important part and IMO your issue: The relay coil when turned off is like an ignition coil. It will develop 300 volts and arc the OPS contacts unless there is a surge suppressor diode across the relay coil. Over time this will ruin the contacts and sometimes weld them together.
To install the diode across the coil you literally put it in backwards. Note put this diode directly on the relay coil wires as any switches in the way will render it useless. That would be with the diode band toward the positive connection so the diode doesn't flow any current with the engine on and OPS supplying power. Install wrong and the OPS or diode will instantly smoke off. So it's pretty easy to make sure it is correct and they are generally sold in packs of 2 at Radio Shack.
Flyback diode Explained here with diagrams for the coil side of the relay only (you got the LP contacts fine I assume):
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flyback_diode