Not clear on:
1) The machine shop FUBARED the precups by grinding the heads with them in. The grinding wheel will "suck" the precups into the wheel...
2) Machined the precup recess in the head too deep.
WHEN you find out if they destroyed the precups, the heads, or both: ASK yourself if you want to pull the engine back out when the red-neck duck tape and bailing wire shim idea fails?
@Will L. can tell you what the precups are made of to resist the blow torch in the combustion chamber and we just had a pic of a flame cut precup on here. Glow plugs are on the razors' edge of failure and they are bolted into the head. Shims with contact cooling to the head doesn't sound like something that will last especially if you are building it for power like the rockers etc. indicate. Would the shims flat out melt, soften up and deform becoming thinner, or would their extreme expansion and contraction all work the gasket into a quick failure? Just saying risk of do it right or take the time to do it over.
Set of heads or just a set of precups? My luck would be both... (The shim cost is half that of new precups.)
I have never had to re-torque a head as this is the point of TTY head bolts. I haven't re-torqued the ARP studs either. Cold is relative as I have torqued them when it's 110 out.