It wasn't unexpected. He became gravely ill back in March and we used all available funds and leave/vacation time to get her out there for a few weeks with him. She just got back about two weeks ago, and he was being transferred to a nursing home. We were notified two days ago that his condition worsened very rapidly then her brother called to tell us he passed yesterday morning. The wife flies out at noon tomorrow and will be there until Friday.
Apologies to all for sort of derailing the thread.