ak diesel driver
6.5 driver
I've got a temperature controlled fan on the remote tranny cooler under the bed so I've always got the heat under control. Had to have it as my hill climbing speed was about 10mph in some cases.
You're right about the cold tranny with no load. I'm going to rig a three way valve so I can be running through the radiator when I'm not towing (much better warm up) and "bypass" with the trailer on.
Talk to leroy he's got a thermostatically controlled bypass valve.