I want to thank everyone that posted here and sent me pm's to try and figure this truck out and the patience that you all have with newbies, unlike another forum I tried to get help at.
I may even keep it nowGood plan. Well at least until I can afford one with more power
Bad plan 
. Now maybe I can help someone else with the knowledge I have acquired here.
You all should be proud of yourselves for having a terrific forum. Thank you.
Our pleasure sir and it is why we are here to help out others, some get frustrated with our insistence to drill down to cause with simple things like did you check gnds-wires-etc. rather than postulating a quick "It is X".
Reason is many of us are 6.5 owners by choice with been there done it/hated it/fixed it/still love em in spite of their problems experience, that decided to stick with our "Jurassic Park" dinosaurs when others "went the way of dark forces"

modern common rail Diesel.
Nothing wrong with CRD that is where the "BIG power" is; I'll succumb to the need/availability one day, but until then I'll just keep having fun with these "old ones" because I like old, especially since I resemble old myself

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Maybe that is difference with site age of the group not caught up so much in being bad-ass like the 20 somethings forums with their teens in the mix as well.
FWIW you have found
THE SITE for 6.5 information be sure to invite your friends.
In addition to the venerable 6.2/6.5 family we are pretty proud of our other forum haunts; Dmax-Cummins-Stroke etc. same level of maturity IMO and some smart tech. guys there as wel;l with mucho been there done that experience.
This site grew out of a need to sort out the posturing BS of other sites, TTS is an extended family of sorts it won't take long for you to figure that out either.
Ditto on BJs "Hook it set ..............!"
When I started in 2000 with mine, I was poster child for the claim "6.5s don't have any balls" not in as delivered trim, well it is a much different beast now.
Wishing you continued success/good luck with your venture, we can get you through whatever ills and problems you inherited from prior owners that did not know how to properly feed & care for the 6.5.