Thanks, buddy, for continuing to educate me about relay operation. I guess i always thought a 12v relay was just that, a 12v relay, nothing special, all the same. Now I find that there are differences and they make a difference. I checked the one that I had on the truck and it has a resistor in parallel with the solenoid. The resistance reading was the same both directions. Apparently a resistor can diminish the voltage spike from the collapsing coil field but not eliminate it. So I think I will check around and see what other relays I might have and use an external diode and resistor. I feel a little better now that I have a more solid idea what may have been frying the pressure switches. I won't bother me as much to buy another one if it will actually last for a few years.