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The 4.3 is a good little v6. Yours was same year as the cyclone and the typhoon.
They pushed them hard with a turbo and inner cooler. Adding a small turbo with inner cooler would be my suggestion. But if you aren’t changing pistons, cam, etc. then use around half the boost they did.
There is one fatal flaw in the 4.3- the intake manifold gaskets fail often. To play it safe the rule of thumb is replace it every 50,000 miles. It’s not expensive and a simple weekend job first time you do it. After that you can bang it out in a long afternoon. When you wait too long it fails and coolant ends up in a cylinder. Most of the time it happens after shutting off the engine then next time you start it the engine locks up at low rpm. So replacing the gasket, coolant flush and two oil changes solves it. But if it goes while at 3000 rpm you buy a new engine.
If doing improvements as each payday comes or once a month type improvements:
First do the intake gasket.
Then add an egt gauge to learn where normal safe temperatures are. Write them down because over time you will forget.
Then add the inner cooler but leave the ends covered to keep them clean.
Next add the turbo. Having the inner cooler from day one is a big deal not just for power but keeping the air cool for it helps engine longevity.
If ya want you can plum in the cold air intake to go from the air filter to your throttle body before you ever get the turbo. If you’ve heard of a cold air intake, this is like that, but way better because you’ll be drawn in the air and cooling it way more than just ambient temperature. But the money you spend on the plumbing, most of it will go to waste once you add the turbo. You’ll be able to use some of the parts plumbing to the turbo, but some will go in the trash.
A nice thing about a turbo is, it doesn’t just add power, but when you drive calmly, it will increase MPG.