With a boost-regulated wastegate, the spring in the can (or on the actuator rod) keeps the wastegate pushed shut against the exhaust drive pressure. The diaphram in the can pushes against the the spring and as the manifold pressure becomes great enough to overcome the spring's pressure, begins to open the wastegate and dump drive pressure which then reduces boost. On my old '84 Subaru Turbo 4x4 wagon the turbo had a boost-regulated wastegate that was set for 7-8 psi of boost. On the advice of a friend who was a Subaru-trained mechanic at the local dealership who told me that they would run them at 20-22 psi all day long at the school without any ill effects, he told me to go to the hardware store, find a spring with hooks on each end and about 18-20 lbs tension, modify if neccessary for length, then hook one end through the canister shaft hole that the wastegate crank arm attached through and then stretch the spring and hook the other end to the back of the canister to put more pressure against the diaphragm and thus make the wastegate open at higher intake boost pressure. Using a restrictor in the manifold boost line to the canister will only delay wastegate opening a few seconds until pressure against the diaphragm builds enough to overcome the spring and push open the wastegate (like when punching it coming out of a corner and you don't want power to fall off).
If you can't get over 10 psi of boost with your HX40xx it is one of two things. Either you are not fueling enough to build enough drive pressure to attain 20+psi of boost, or the spring that PUSHES the wastegate shut is too weak to hold until 20 psi manifold pressure is built against the diaphragm to pull the wastegate open against it, so it opens early at lower psi so you don't attain over 10psi intake manifold pressure. Remember, a boost actuated wastegate works backwards to how the GMx's wastegates (mechanical or vacuum) work. GMx wastegates PULL the wastegate shut and either drive pressure overcomes the mechanical spring pull or the vacuum pump's pull (why the max boost on 94+ GMx equipped is 15psi, it is the 15 psi of vacuum pulled by the pump, boost is controlled by the solenoid bleeding off vacuum to the actuator that pulls the wastegate valve shut, which allows it to open and bypass the turbine, lowering boost).