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@NiceTruckOldMan update your signature with the details of your truck, things like year, make, model, engine, and trans, along with any work that has been done including upgrades and modifications. this will help us all when diagnosing issues, we can see what you have and have done and it shows up for us each time you post.
your truck has ether a 4l60e or 4l80e depending on what engine you have. things you want to check... any codes on the PCM, the SES light might not be on but some tranny codes can still be present with the light off in the dash. did this issue just start or has it been like this since the trans was rebuilt? is the tranny fluid at the full mark when the engine is running and fully warm? what color is the fluid and does it smell burnt?
Does the speedo work and is it showing accurate compared to the GPS on your phone? How harsh are the shifts from 1st, 2nd, 3rd, etc...
check to see if your TCC is working. TCC= transmission torque converter clutch. this is the lockup which should be working in both 3rd and 4th. an easy way to check is to get the truck up to cruising speed around 55 mph on a mostly flat road.. watch your tach for the RPM while gently applying the brake just enough to turn the brake lights on all the while not taking your foot off the go pedal maintaining speed. you should see about a 200 RPM increase momentarily until you take your foot off the brake pedal. you should also slightly feel the TCC release, almost feels like a shift but much softer. If what you are experiencing as fluctuating RPM stops during this test, this means the TCC is trying to engage but is having issues.
while you are performing this test, verify if your cruise control works.
Next park the truck and set the parking brake or block the tires, crawl underneath on the drivers side and look on the side of the transmission, you should see a large round connector with several wires in a loom. it should have a pair of tabs, one on each side to squeeze on and pull the connector straight out from the trans. look for the inside of the connector for trans fluid leakage. sometime fluid will seep from this area an cause a short on the pins. also look for any corrosion or burnt connections. you can spray brake cleaner into them to wash out any fluid and debris.
If you find any fluid or debris, clean it and go for a drive checking for any improvement.
report back here with your findings and answers to questions along with further details on your truck. we are all here to help
