Your receipt says only 6 glowplugs . Most likely the hardest to get to weren't done. If you have an infrared heat gun you could shoot the exhaust manifold right where it comes out of the head when you start it and see which cylinder/s aren't warming up as fast. It would be a 2 man job and...
My 96 went to 305k before the crank broke. It had massive blowby, I'm assuming from getting too hot. Never did anything with the dampner, My 99 is at 285k and blowby is still OK, noticing lower oil pressure though. IMO getting hot is the main culprit with these engines
You need to get a scanner on there that can read the data live to see what's being commanded vs what's actually going on. Have you checked the harness plug at the trans to see if it's oil contaminated?