What went wrong?
Ok, i finally got to do this mod....not without some problems though
I ditched the weatherproof connector (gasketed) idea, and went with the standard old setup (picked up a harness and relay for about 6$ each). I was unsuccessful at finding (at a decent price) a hanging relay with built in diode...so I basically learned thru these pages how to do it on my own.
I used Buddy's diagram in post 63... as my template printed and all ( a little different pin-outs from what Matuva summarized up so well

....but should work the same none the less).
Ok following the diagram that Buddy Made I made some changes...(my first mistake I bet) I had gotten a single pole double throw (SPDT) relay (unknown amperage at this time) with A RESISTOR built in it. I measured 80 ohms across the coil.
I installed a diode in parallel to the coil (1N4005... or a 1amp 600v ...across 85 and 86) in accordance of the diagram.
I installed a second diode of the same type in series between the OPS and terminal 85 on the relay (grey wire that i cut) and fed it with a 4Amp fuse( its all I had at the time.... will be changing to a 1 amp).
I then wired the other end of the grey wire to terminal 30 on the relay (which goes to the pump).
I grounded pin 86.
Okay here is were i deviated from the diagram aside from the extra diode & fuse protecting the OPS from the relay (85).... I grabbed power (12V all the time) from the Glow plug controller lug, using a 10 amp fuse and landing it on 87 of the relay.
I wanted to do a prime on the pump during glow plugs....and decided to grab the power (as described in the diagram ) from the glow plug controller (other lug) using a 1N5404 3amp 400V diode and another 10 amp fuse (
which I'm blowing) and instead of landing it with the OPS on 85 I INSTEAD landed it on the N.C. 87a thinking it might be better isolating it from the OPS (and it was available).
So...after all that I turn the key for Glow plugs...GREAT pump is running with the glow plug cycle....then start. After shutdown Pump runs until oil pressure drops GREAT, all is well....and this was with the OPS that stopped working after 3k miles (ac delco).
Well I went to show off my work....(murphys law), and then found out that I'm not getting the fuel pump with the glow plugs before starting because of a blown 10amp fuse. So I changed it out for another 10amp and cycle the glows half a dozen times and the pump runs each time ....until i restart then same blown fuse again.
So whats causing the fuse to blow? Its happening between cranking and after shutdown?